Fr. Vincent Serpa's advice to wishy - washy husband is to the point:

"Friend, eternity is a long, long time..."

From This Rock magazine. September / October -- 2010.

Note: Such local St. Mary Magdalene's YA personalities as Ida, Janie, Julia & Frances should be getting their complementary copies of this same issue within 15 days.

But!

Not ( yet!) Martha & Paul as they seem to have disappeared off the face of this earth, or at least of Kinney County, Texas! :)